I realized I have almost no clue of who I am or what I want. My aha moment? I decided to do the eHarmony Free Communication Weekend and had to spend an hour answering a questionnaire all about me.
I was overwhelmed! It was probably the most tedious hour I’ve encountered in a LONG time. They asked, are you this quality and are you that; what is the most important quality you want in a man; what trait do people see in you first, other than appearance. How am I supposed to know, I felt like saying.
That’s when it hit me. I need to be me, and I really need to set a plan to reach that point. Combined with values I desire to live by and tools I’ve learned along the way (and will continue to learn and employ), I start my quest to be a confident and complete me, and I will start to live the life I imagined. As for eHarmony, I think it’s better to wait until I know what in the world I’m looking for!
Photo courtesy of Lefty Love