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The Aha Moment

I realized I have almost no clue of who I am or what I want.  My aha moment? I decided to do the eHarmony Free Communication Weekend and had to spend an hour answering a questionnaire all about me.

I was overwhelmed!  It was probably the most tedious hour I’ve encountered in a LONG time.  They asked, are you this quality and are you that; what is the most important quality you want in a man; what trait do people see in you first, other than appearance.  How am I supposed to know, I felt like saying.

That’s when it hit me.  I need to be me, and I really need to set a plan to reach that point.  Combined with values I desire to live by and tools I’ve learned along the way (and will continue to learn and employ), I start my quest to be a confident and complete me, and I will start to live the life I imagined. As for eHarmony, I think it’s better to wait until I know what in the world I’m looking for!


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Priorities, Priorities

“The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”

I love the above quote.  It’s so simple in statement yet not always so simple in life.

The first step is knowing what the main thing is.  What are my priorities?

I brainstormed:

  • health
  • athletic pursuits…running, cycling, swimming, hiking, yoga
  • family
  • business and money
  • social pursuits
  • writing
  • creativity
  • learning/improvement

By keeping the above statement in mind and figuring out your priorities, you can achieve the life you desire.  What are your priorities?


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